For Wives
Online Resources*
- Whole Hearted Partners Program
- Redemptive Living for Women
- Porn and Your Husband: Covenant Eyes PDF
- Partner Speak: Support groups for partners of sex offenders
- Daily Strength: online support for families (often mothers) of sex offenders
- A Circle of joy: www.acircleofjoy.com
- For more on women and the bible: Marg Mowczko
Books
- Beyond Betrayal: How God is Helping Women (and Couples) to Heal from Infidelity
- Your Sexually Addicted Spouse, Dr Barbara Steffens, Marsha Means
- Keep Walking: 40 Days to Healing and Freedom after Betrayal, Lynn Cherry
- Intimate Deception, Sherri Keffer
- Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal, Kevin B. Skinner
- Why Does He Do That?, Lundy Bancroft
- Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No, Dr Henry Cloud, Dr John Townsend
Resources for Small Groups
- Door of Hope: facilitator training workbook
- Rescued: A Woman’s Guide to Surving and Thriving After Sexual Betrayal * Shelly Martinkus
- Journey to Healing and Joy workbook, Marsha Means
- Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No workbook, Dr John Townsend
- The Trauma Recovery Group, Michaela Mendelsohn and Judith Lewis Herman
- When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography: Vickie Tiede
Therapists and Coaches
- Whole Hearted Partners Program
- APSATS
- Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International — includes a list of Christian therapaists/coaches trained by APSATS
- Redemptive Living
- Women Ever After (particularly for those separating/divorcing)
- Living Truth: www.living-truth.org
- Passionate Hearts Coaching
- Where there has been sex offending/incest: Marcella Burns
For Those Fighting Porn/Sex Addiction
Online
- Naked Truth Project
- C-SASI therapist directory
- Freedom Fight
- Redemptive Living
- Strive
- Samson Society
- Proven Men
- Integrity Restored
- Sex Addiction Specialists Aotearoa
Books
- Slaying the Monster: Six Battle Strategies for Overcoming Pornography, Marcus Warner
- Worthy of Her Trust: What You Need to Do to Rebuild Trust and Win Her Back, Jason Martinkus and Steve Arterburn
- Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help Their Partners Heal, Carol Jurgenson Sheets
- Wired for Intimacy: How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain, Dr. William Struthers
- Surfing for God, Michael J Cusick
- Every Man’s Battle, Fred Stoeker and Steve Arterburn
- Samson and the Pirate Monks, Nate Larkin
- Loving People: How to Love and Be Loved, Dr John Townsend
- Sons of the Father, Gordon Dalbey
For the Couple
Online
- Redemptive Living - Kitchen Convo series
Books
- Beyond Betrayal Couple's Guide
- Worthy of Her Trust: What You Need to Do to Rebuild Trust and Win Her Back, Jason Martinkus and Steve Arterburn
- Boundaries in Marriage, Dr John Townsend
- Pure Sex: The Spirituality of Sexual Desire, Gordon Dalbey
- The Best Sex for Life, Patricia Weerakoon
- What Makes Love Last, John Gottman
For Children and Youth (and Those Raising Them)
Online
- Fortify: www.fortifyprogram.org
- Practical Purity
- Protect Young Eyes
- Netsafe
Books
- There's What on My Phone -- Lisa Taylor
- Good Pictures, Bad Pictures: Kristen A Jenson and Gail Poyner
- Sex is Not the Problem, Lust Is - J Harris (teen)
- Meet Mr. Smith: Revolutionize the Way You Think About Sex, Purity, and Romance - Eric and Leslie Ludy (teen)
- Not for Kids: Liz Walker (ages 5-8)
- The Purity Code: God’s Plan for Sex and Your Body: Jim Burns (pre-teen and teen)
- Closing the Window: Tim Chester (older teen)
- God’s Design for Sex: Stan and Brenda Jones (ages 3 to teen)”
- Growing Up by the Book (ages 10-14), Patricia Weerakoon
- Teen Sex (ages 14 +), Patricia Weerakoon
For Clergy
- Sex Addicts in Ministry: www.sainministry.org
- Missionaries to Ministers: www.missionariestoministers.com
- Covenant Eyes: “Fight Porn in Your Church” free PDF booklet
- Integrity Restored: www.integrityrestored.com
For Therapists and Coaches
- IACSAS: www.sexaddictioncertification.org
- APSATS: apsats.org
For Social Action
- National Center on Sexual Exploitation: endsexualexploitation.org
- Rahab Ministry: rahabministry.org
- Collective Shout: www.collectiveshout.org
- International Justice Mission: www.ijm.org
For Research
- Partner Trauma Research
- Covenant Eyes Pornography Statistics
- Big Porn Inc
- IWF: Internet Watch Foundation: www.iwf.org.uk
- Proven Men: www.provenmen.org
In New Zealand
To find a counsellor: Sex Addiction Specialists Aotearoa
To find books: Oil of Joy Press