When to Challenge Your "Support"
If you've been reading this blog for any length of time you'll know I'm a big proponent of "finding support" for ourselv…
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What is "Good Recovery": Part 2
Last week I began sharing a resource that I've created for sex addicts to help them move from "sobriety" to "recovery".…
What Is "Good Recovery"?
Over the years I've heard numerous betrayed spouses ask some variation or other of the question, "What is good recovery…
She's Not the Enemy: Conclusion
Today we continue with Jeff Hutchinson's excellent article aimed at SA husbands that he started for us last week. More T…
She's Not the Enemy
by Jeff Hutchinson “If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.”— Mark 3:25 My wife, Ella, and I have…
My Idolatry
Last week I looked at how today's sex addiction falls under the category "nothing new under the sun." There has always b…
How Sex Addiction = Idolatry
One of the topics that my husband and I speak about in churches (and to clients) is the fact that porn, sex addiction, a…
The Pain of Betrayal: Fear (part 4)
Nine years into this journey, I still find myself struggling with fears at times. Fortunately, today it’s nothing like t…
The Pain of Betrayal: Fear (part 3)
One of the reasons I’ve spent extra time on the topic of fear is that much of the trauma of sex addiction-related betray…