She's Not the Enemy
by Jeff Hutchinson “If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.”— Mark 3:25 My wife, Ella, and I have…
FILTERS
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6 Things the Church Should Never Say: Part 2
by Ella Hutchinson Last week we launched Ella's two-part post on six things the Church Should never say to wives of sex…
6 Things the Church Should Never Say to Wives of Sex Addicts
by Ella Hutchinson Unfortunately, the Church—and most Christian counselors—have little to no training or knowledge in ho…
What Michelangelo Taught Me About Betrayal
Last month, while in Europe visiting family, my husband, daughter and I went to Florence. We spent three days looking at…
Enraged!
I have long understood that anger, possibly even rage, is inevitable on this journey. I devote many pages of Beyond Betr…
Shocked!
One of the respondents to the 2014/2015 Survey of Wives of Sex Addicts, conducted for Beyond Betrayal said she felt like…
Fear Series Wrap-Up
Seven and a half years into this journey, I still find myself struggling with fears at times. Fortunately, today it’s no…
Processing Fear (and Trauma)
One of the reasons I’ve spent so many weeks on the topic of fear is that much of the trauma of sex addiction-related bet…
Fear: Part 2
Those of us who have been around PSA (partner of sex addict) circles awhile will remember the scathing, malicious articl…