All posts tagged in: 'porn addiction'

More Stinkin Thinkin... On Sex after Betrayal

Last week, I worked on deconstructing some of the mistaken thinking in Christian circles around the role marital sex plays in preventing sex addiction. This has been part of a larger series on bad advice aimed at wives of sex addicts and those looking to help them.

This week I finish off this series by tackling the myth that if

Stinkin' Thinkin'... on Sex after Betrayal

Over the next two weeks we continue the stinkin’ thinkin’ (in church and society) series with a look at what we’re being told about our sexual “duty” to a husband with a sex addiction. Jane Howcroft looked at this issue from a biblical perspective a couple of weeks ago. Today, I’d like to look at it as well

The Wife is to Blame?: Part 2

Last week our guest blogger, Jane Howcroft, shared insights from scripture on a common lie about lust—that men won't do it (or sexually act out) if they're being satisfied sexually by their wife.

Today, Jane is going to further dismantle the lies in the blog post that inspired this discussion. That post, Making It Easy For Your Husband to

The Wife is to Blame ?

Today's post, the first in a two-part series, tackles a common myth circulating in the church, and beyond, that men wouldn't "wander" (i.e. use porn, lust, act out sexually with others) if their wives were just working harder to please them sexually. In other words... it's our fault when they have these issues.

It's a pleasure to have guest

From Porn to Violence

Last month I was asked to speak at a hui (Maori symposium) on domestic violence. When I told friends and colleagues I was doing this, I got a lot of surprised reactions. What does domestic violence have to do with porn and sex addiction —the topics I usually speak on?

Not Such a Stretch

Last year a meta study was

And Another Thing About Porn!

Last week I gave you a bit of a rant about how people increasingly see porn use as moral -- as opposed to say, overeating or not recycling pop bottles. Today I'm going to continue that rant with another couple thoughts that go beyond the brain science.

Porn Exploits Women

While my focus at Beyond Betrayal Community is predominantly on